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I Am Quirkyalone

The world categorises people into two- People and who like relationship and people who don't. I was always the mixture of these two. I am very open to a relationship and I also enjoy being single. Both of these statuses have their own qualities that are just awesome. I am the third kind that is very unpopular and I don't think many people even heard this term. I am a Quirkyalone.

Incredibly Quirkyalone

Quirkyalone is people who enjoy their single status but are very open to relationships also. People like me don't go dating every now and then or just for the sake of being in a relationship or to show off ourselves as "cool" or catching up with the "trend". We take relationships very seriously, not that others don't but, We look for a partner with whom we can have a longer and a meaningful relationship. Not just that, a break up doesn't put us into a shell of anti-relationship. We are still very positive about relationships. It feels good to not have that urge of being in a relationship, enjoying our single status and being happy just like any other person.

With all these qualities of quirkyalone, there are things that are either very annoying or very resolute about us. We are very much dedicated once we get into a relationship. We won't let it fall without making ten times more effort than others do. We try to give it as many chances and consider even the slightest possibility to make it work. We might give too much of a time to a relationship which can make it worse. But as a Quirkyalone I can say we work it out most of the times, at least I have.


Quirkyalone vs Others

Both of them have their own qualities with which they live their life and handle a relationship. Quirkyalone is just a nature of a human being that is good to have in today's world where dating is just a cool trend and relationships are more about impressing others irrespective of how the two actually feel which eventually leads to a break-up.
What I feel is that it is better to enjoy being single and keep meeting new people and make friends without any agenda and who knows you will find a great person whom you will love and respect and get the same in return.
There is nothing bad about not being a quirkyalone. It's a Choice about how you want to live or it is the way you are. However you are, just give enough importance to a person to keep them by your side. Not less, not more, just enough.

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