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Life is always Complicated

Life, A journey of different events that occur, pursuing or discovering different hobbies, building new relationships and getting to know more people, Playing favourite sports, hanging out with friends, Dinner with family, those secret meetings with girlfriend/boyfriend, learning how to behave in school to absolutely not applying that in college, and making to ourselves qualified enough to earn money. But is life always the things that I have mentioned above? Is it always positive?  No. Life is complicated and it will be always.

Negatives and positives will always be there. It's on us how well we are able to admire and focus on our positives and ignoring the negatives or fixing it.

Family and Friends are the Keys

Interacting with your family and friends will help you know what are your qualities and what things have a negative impact on your life. You will understand better what is best for you, how good you are at it and how can you improve. But final decision should be yours. They can give you advice and suggestion but it's on you to judge their advice and decide what to implement.

Complications and difficulties will always follow you in each and every part of your life be it professional or personal and that happens with everybody but knowing how to deal with it is what makes us different from each other. And there is always more than one way to figure out the solution if one doesn't work another will. Every failure takes us closer to the solution. We need to have patience and have to keep on trying and not giving up.

Don't Forget to Enjoy

Your failure will be a success one day or your success may come running down but in all these, we must not lose the will to enjoy from time to time. Life is not just failure or success, it's also about being able to enjoy with our loved ones. Make time to travel or reading books or watching a funny video on youtube or playing your favourite sport. These are the things that will keep you happy and will give your mind the relaxation that is needed to work on your failure and keeping the things Intact in your life.

Complications are there to give a spark to our life, makes our life challenging. Enjoy the complications too. 

Cheers!


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